Serenity, courage & wisdom
I strive for the serenity to accept what I cannot change, the courage to change what I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
The commentary on this step is in the process of being revised for the new, 5th edition. It will be back online this Fall.
The above is a secular (e.g. non-religious, non-theistic) version of Reinhold Neibuhr's Serenity Prayer. See full text of the original Serenity Prayer. See also: Printable "Wisdom" PDF